Book excerpt: Misconstrued, good intentions, good motives, wrong outcomes, wrong results; but she survived. This book goes through a series of lifelong lessons—lessons that people go through in an entire lifetime. The author here goes through this in a short space as she herself is only in her early thirties. It takes a longer time for an average individual to go through life’s lessons. However, with this book, it’s taking you through some of life’s realities through a young girl’s heart. We emphasize this as so many young girls are critiqued for dating someone who isn’t available. So many young girls are used by men, and they are not in a position to represent themselves, to respect themselves, or to stand up for themselves. The author herself had to be strong to withstand harsh critiques as well as overcome some very embarrassing public displays—from humble roots to success in a small country, from falling to rising through some of life’s hardest battles. She’s always a prowomen person who believes that women are the stronger of the two sexes. She is not being biased but always being prowomen. She somehow ended up being public enemy number 1 to most women. This shows how to deal with a public breakdown in the midst of the fiery storm and how to walk away when it isn’t what you want to do. When the bonds you’ve made hold you back stronger and the strength you have to muster up is not enough, let go and give it to God. Let him work his way and work out situations for you.